As a male player in real life, I have always chosen to play female characters in video games. However, some people believe this choice means I am hiding my true sexuality or identity, or that I am simply a creepy person. Can I not just prefer it without judgment?
Dear Player,
It seems like there are many people in your life who think they understand you better than you understand yourself. While I cannot claim to know your innermost thoughts, I can provide some perspective on your decision:
Fantasy and fiction allow us to step into a different perspective and explore viewpoints that differ from our own. Selecting a female character as your avatar does not mean you are actually a woman deep down inside. Just like reading a book from a female narrator’s point of view does not make you secretly female. The internet was once thought to be a place where we could try on different identities in a space of anonymity, but now we are often categorized by algorithms and targeted ads. Despite this, video games still offer the opportunity to temporarily be someone else behind a virtual mask.
Playing roles and pretending can sometimes uncover buried desires that we have refused to acknowledge consciously. If you experience intense joy when playing as a female character or find yourself fantasizing about being that character in real life, perhaps there is something deeper at play as your friends suggest.
Gender is often seen as a predetermined script that dictates how people should conform to specific standards. Choosing to play as a female character may be a way to express parts of yourself that you have felt compelled to suppress in everyday life. It might not mean that you are in the wrong body, but could indicate that your expression of gender has been limited. Your choice of characters may reflect your own complexity and demonstrate a desire to embody different aspects of your identity.
I hope this offers you some clarity on your situation as a gender player.
Sincerely,
[Writer’s Name]
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